refactor: simplify extension handling in duckdb #105
                
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cc @ceholden just FYSA since you helped work on this, I'm refactoring to Do Less™ here, but expose the ability to just execute any DuckDB query for custom setup, etc. I also provide a way to pass in extension files in init, which we can hopefully use to point to pre-fetched stuff in our lambda.